Wednesday, October 8, 2008

Confusion

I don't know if any of you have ever gone through this, but what do you do when a fwb/nsa (yes, it can happen) becomes something attached? That's the best that I can explain it.

I'm an honest person. So I told S. about seeing Ryan about a month ago. S. got all jealous but of course said he wasn't jealous but it was noticeable. He just said he was upset. As you all know, s. and my schedule hasn't agreed since the first of August and here it is October. Wouldn't you be happy if your fwb/nsa-person saw someone else when you couldn't be with them?

I'm just worried that he's developing feelings. I've done my best not to as sometimes I typically do (you know how it goes). A friend told me to nicely tell S. that me and him aren't in a situation where he could be my full time boyfriend.

Anyone have any suggestions?

Sunday, October 5, 2008

Here I Am

I've been having a small problem with my modem. Yes, I still live in the dino-age of dialup and modems.

This week has been hectic. Our 'company' has been preparing for a festival that was yesterday and then our department had an event on Friday night. So we've been running around like chickens with our heads cut off. And I haven't even been able to watch the playoffs.

Nothing really to report about myself really. No action for me. Earlier I chatted with a friend and told him that I forgot how to kiss and he replied with, we can practice.

My friend k. has a friend-turned-girlfriend. I'm really glad for him. He was hurt by an old friend who had a fling with him that wasn't permanent but this permantcy broke his heart. Why does girls do this? Actually, I've had two guy friends go through this. But anyway, this friend k. is really happy with this girl and like I said, I'm glad. I had the chance to talk to him this week for a second and I told him that I wanted a friend who would hopefully turn into something else, well, even if it didn't go that far. Sometimes you just want that person to be there.

This is the best blog post ever, it's titled, Women and Their Fantasies. Go, go out and read this. Every man and women needs to read this! People, well, men have this certain problem and are really afraid to hurt a woman. You aren't going to hurt a woman. If you do, she will plainly and loudly tell you that you are doing that.