I'm pretty much a late bloomer although I don't typically state that when I'm talking to someone. I'm just not that way. Anyway, I miss those days of vanilla. I miss talking about what position was the best or what turned us on the most. I guess once you're past those questions, then you move onto more darker and kinkier things. But I'm wondering, can you ever come back? I'm not saying that I want vanilla all the time, but I definitely don't want the other stuff all the time either. Maybe it could be 50/50 and I'd be satisfied with that. As I've told others, I'm afraid I'll eventually marry someone who is 100% vanilla, that's my fear.
I also have a crazy vent/thought...can you disappoint someone that you haven't even met? As you know, this place where I live isn't swarming with men, so I talk to plenty online. I have the great ability of weeding out the losers from the non-losers.
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Yes, you can go back. It's all just a matter of being new and fresh again. When you met someone, and get all interested in each other. Talk favourite positions and act like your 15 again. But this time, enjoy it. Take your time. Why rush it?
Perhaps that's why people chase virgins? Who knows. Reliving the kink vicariously through the exposure of others.
But when you add the spice of kink to the mix, don't you ever long for the taste of vanilla again?
Oh, yes, and you can disappoint someone you've never met. Is it a prerequisite to meet someone before you start treating them like a human being?
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